In My presence

Listen carefully. Speak honestly. Follow through. Arrive punctual, impeccably clean, sober, and prepared.

Do not arrive with assumptions about how submission should look. Observe first. Take direction. Respond accordingly. Be ready to adapt and respond to me.

Thoughtful tribute is always appreciated. Flowers, books, objects of beauty, or something chosen with genuine care are remembered long after expensive gestures made without thought.

Every new dynamic begins with a petition. It should be clear and specific. Tell me who you are, what draws you to my practice, what you hope to cultivate, and why you believe you merit my consideration.

If your petition interests me, we will move into a conversation about boundaries, shared interests, and expectations. Once a session has been negotiated, I will provide instructions specific to our meeting, including attire, what to bring, how to present tribute, and how you will address me. Follow them exactly.